: try walking in my shoes :

it is very easy for anyone of us to resolve someone else's problem. we would probably say "if that happened to me, i would have done this and that, and bla bla". it is very easy to say...but, it twists when we acutally get into the same situation. our perception towards the situation changes and just like most of the people, we would think for the worse. we no longer help ourself with our own great advices...it is never easy to judge and advice for someone else's problem unless we get into their shoes.